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Attraction feels fuzzy when you wait for someone else to decide. Make it measurable and you will know where you stand by Day 10.
Framework
Step 1 - The 48 hour clarity pass
After matching or meeting, check 3 basics in 48 hours profile consistency tone and logistics
If any hard mismatch appears age intent distance, mark as no and stop after 2 messages
Step 2 - The 2 invite rule by Day 5
Offer 2 concrete options within 5 days one short plan and one coffee window
If they neither pick nor counter within 24 hours, send one nudge then close the tab
Step 3 - The Day 10 decision
Track 6 signals for 10 days replies in 2 - 6 hours specific counters proactive questions warmth steady plans no last minute flaking
If at least 4 of 6 are present by Day 10, continue, else archive and reset your search
Standards on paper: 3 non-negotiables, 5 dealbreakers, 2 green flags
Cadence: Replies in 2 - 6 hours, follow-up in 24 hours, dates spaced 3 - 5 days
This turns mixed messages into a scoreboard and keeps you from chasing maybes longer than 10 days, especially if you are coming from apps with scattered calendars (use The App-to-Date Converter).
Quick Wins
In 6 minutes, prepare 2 time slots you can actually make this week
Ask 3 questions about logistics day time location to force a real plan
End Date 1 at minute 70 to leave on a positive slope
Confirm Date 2 within 24 hours of Date 1 with one time and one backup
Script: “Free Tue 7 or Thu 6 near Oak Street - want to lock one”
If - Then Fallbacks
If 3 unanswered messages in 72 hours, then exit that thread
If reschedules reach 2 in 14 days, then pause outreach for 7 days
If boundary is crossed once, then immediate exit
If 2 green signals and 0 dealbreakers, then continue for 14 days
If scheduling chaos beyond 6 messages, then switch to a 10 minute call or exit
Closer
Attraction is visible when plans appear on a calendar. Use clocks and counts so interest is proven, not interpreted.
One Metric: By Day 10 - 1 date complete and 4 of 6 signals active. Else exit.
Proof over promises.
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