Mondays are calm and low stakes. A tight plan with time boxes gives you evidence fast and protects the rest of your week.
Framework
Lock logistics confirm by 1 pm local.
Choose a start between 6:00 and 7:30 pm
Pick 1 venue plus 1 backup within 4 minutes on foot
Arrival window hold a 0 to 10 minute grace.
Send an update by minute 3 if running late
Exit if arrival reaches minute 15 without a clear ETA
The 60 minute arc run 15 then 30 then 15.
First 15: 3 light topics and 1 shared laugh
Middle 30: check 4 values and 2 lifestyle basics
Standards on paper: write 3 non-negotiables and 5 dealbreakers before you leave.
Cadence: replies within 4 hours on weekdays and 12 hours on weekends. Book the next date within 24 hours after a pass. Space dates 3 to 6 days apart.
Quick Wins
Set the end time say your exit at minute 0 in one sentence.
Confirm logistics do it in ≤3 messages each.
Guide the convo ask 4 questions on 2 themes such as work and play.
Close the loop follow up within 12 hours with a day and time.
Script: “Let’s do 6:45 pm at Pine Street Cafe for 60 minutes. If that works I’ll confirm by 1 pm today.”
If-Then Fallbacks
If no plan is confirmed by 1 pm, then move to another day within 7 days.
If reschedules exceed 1 in 14 days, then pause for 30 days.
If safety or boundary breach once, then immediate exit.
If at least 3 of 5 green signals appear by minute 45, then offer a second date within 72 hours.
If scheduling or reply chaos passes 8 texts or 24 hours, then switch to a 5 minute call or exit.
Closer
Treat Monday as a clean filter. Decide with numbers and keep your week intact.
One Metric: By Tuesday 6 pm: follow up sent. If no plan within 24 hours, exit.
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