Saturdays tempt all-evening drift and fuzzy signals. A two-stop cap with time limits keeps it warm, clear, and actionable.
Framework
Lock it confirm plan by 10 am local.
Choose a start time between 5:00 and 7:30 pm
Pick 2 venues within 6 minutes on foot
Punctuality hold a 0 to 10 minute window.
Send an update by minute 3 if running late
Exit if arrival hits minute 15 without a clear ETA
The 90 minute arc run 25 then 45 then 20.
First 25: one drink or coffee and 3 light topics
Middle 45: walk or sit change and 4 values themes
Standards on paper: list 3 non-negotiables and 5 dealbreakers before you leave.
Cadence: replies within 6 hours on weekdays and 12 hours on weekends. Book next date within 24 hours after a pass. Space dates 3 to 7 days apart.
Quick Wins
Time-box set an end time at minute 0 and say it aloud
Confirm do logistics in ≤3 messages each
Guide ask 5 questions on 2 themes like growth and rest
Follow up send within 12 hours with a day and time
Script: “Let’s meet 6 pm at Maple Room for 90 minutes. If that works I’ll lock the table by 2 pm today.”
If-Then Fallbacks
If no plan is confirmed by 10 am, then move to a new day within 7 days.
If reschedules exceed 1 in 14 days, then pause for 30 days.
If safety or boundary breach once, then immediate exit.
If at least 4 of 6 green signals appear by minute 70, then offer a second date within 72 hours.
If scheduling or reply chaos passes 8 texts or 24 hours, then switch to a 5 minute call or exit.
Closer
Keep Saturday contained and choose yes or no. You protect your weekend and make space for a better match.
One Metric: By 24 hours after Date 1: follow up sent and next date set. Else exit.
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