Future-faking is a sweet fantasy with no receipt.

It sounds romantic.
It steals your time.

They don’t want to lose you.
They just don’t want to commit.

Here are 4 lines that expose future-faking:

“We should totally do that sometime.”
What it means: I want the credit without doing anything.

“When things calm down, I’m all in.”
What it means: I’m buying time with words.

“I can see us doing that together.”
What it means: I like the idea of you - not the effort.

“Soon. I promise.”
What it means: If I sound confident, you’ll stop asking.

Here’s the proof test.

Don’t argue. Don’t interrogate. Don’t explain.
Let reality talk.

Send this:
“Okay. Pick a day and time this week.”

Then stop talking.

If they want you, they’ll choose.
If they want access, they’ll hesitate.

And when the reply is fog - “we’ll see,” “I’ll let you know,” “this week is crazy” - you’ve got your answer.

Words don’t tell the truth.

Actions do.

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Most people stay stuck because they keep negotiating with a daydream.

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