The night crackled, chemistry felt mutual, then their phone went Arctic.
You spiral, replay jokes, hunt for invisible mistakes.
Stop. Post-peak pullback is biology, not betrayal.
Every dopamine spike drags a recoil. People retreat to catch breath and guard ego.
Your response either cements intrigue or capsizes it.
Don’t chase. Don’t vanish. Do this:
After 24 silent hours, drop a micro-ping that anchors the high point and sets the next move:
“Still smiling at our sushi conspiracy. Free Thu 7 for round two—your call.”
Playful, precise, and ball-in-their-court.
It honors the spark without begging for it.
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Most people avoid this truth:
pullback magnifies your frame; overreact and you erase it.
Send once, mute the thread, and let their bounce-back measure itself.
If they match energy, momentum’s alive.
If they stall, you just dodged a slow bleed.
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