Everyone’s busy.
But not everyone avoids.

There’s a difference.
One means “not now.”
The other means “not ever - just too polite to say it.”

Here’s how to know which one you’re dealing with:

The 72-Hour Check
If they say “I’m busy” - give it 3 days.
No follow-up, no reschedule, no warmth? That’s not bandwidth. That’s disinterest.

Busy people still text.
They mention when they’re free. They show you you’re still on the radar.

Avoiders just... disappear.
Then pop up like nothing happened.
That’s the loop that ruins your clarity.

One Text to Break It:
“No stress if timing’s off. Just let me know if you still want to meet up.”
If they’re into it, they’ll clarify.
If they’re not, they’ll drift (or give a fake excuse). Either way, now you know.

Want the full test?
The 90-Day Filter Playbook (25% off)
It includes the 3-message “Busy Test” that forces a plan or a clean exit.

Most people keep chasing out of confusion.
What they need is contrast.

If you find yourself going in circles - feeling warm one moment and cold the next, and confused - join Signals+ (which offers a free 7-day trial). I will give you clear steps to help you decide quickly and move on easily.

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