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The car ride home is quiet. You scroll, hoping they texted. Nothing.
You’re not mad. Just… unsure. What are you even doing here?
Call it the Show Up or Shut Down Rule.
If someone wants to know you - really know you - they make it known.
They ask. They show up. You don’t have to decode silence or justify distance.
But when it’s half-effort and half-vanished? That’s your answer.
It’s just not the one you were hoping for.
At first, you tell yourself they’re just slow to open up.
You fill the gaps. You wait for it to click.
They liked you, right? That night felt real.
Still, the replies come late. The plans keep slipping.
And slowly, your hope starts doing all the work.
The truth is simple, but not soft: people reveal themselves quickly.
Consistent care doesn’t need convincing. And the ones who hesitate?
They already decided, they’re just not saying it.
That’s the same clarity we teach inside The 90-Day Filter Playbook.
You’ll learn what energy to walk toward - and what to walk away from.
Here’s what to check for:
– Do they initiate, or do you chase?
– Do you feel known, or just available?
– Are you calm… or are you calculating?
Script: “This feels like I’m the only one leaning in. I’m stepping back.”
By Day 7 - if you’re still explaining their silence, you already know.
You look out the window. The sky’s starting to clear.
Let the quiet be your answer.
Proof over promises.
NoMixedSignals.