Warm–cold behavior only survives in one environment:
Unanchored communication.
When you don’t set a frame, they slip in and out of yours.
Not because they’re manipulative.
Not because they’re mysterious.
Because the dynamic is unclaimed.
Everyone thinks the fix is the perfect comeback… or the perfect opener.
It’s not.
The real shift happens the moment you stop rewarding inconsistency with curiosity.
Here’s the belief you need to break:
Warm–cold behavior doesn’t continue because they are unpredictable.
It continues because you respond the same way, no matter what signal they send.
Most people stop here.
Here’s what to do instead:
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