You think the dynamic dies because they weren’t serious.

But look closer.

It dies the moment your energy shifts from present to performing.

This happens fast.
Sometimes within three messages.
Sometimes after a great date.
Sometimes the moment you feel even mild potential.

Your signals change.
Your timing changes.
Your tone changes.

And the other person can feel it instantly.

Here’s the truth most people ignore:

Attraction isn’t built by what you say.
It’s built by the energy you hold when you say it.

When your presence is steady, people lean in.
When your presence chases, people retreat.

Most people stop here. Here’s what to do instead: