People don't just disappear on you.

They lower their effort.

They keep chatting just enough to keep you hopeful but not enough to take responsibility.

Here are 4 signs that say "no" slowly:

Texts that only mention time.
"Busy week," "Long day," or just "Lol" - no plans, no direction.

Kind words, no actions.
They say nice things, tell you they miss you, flirt a bit, but don't move things forward.

You're the one pushing.
If you stop reaching out, the connection fades. That's not chemistry; that's on you.

Always saying maybe.
"Soon," "We should," or "I'm up for it" - but no real plans, no definite yes.

Here's what you lose.

Weeks you could have spent with someone real.

Your self-respect gets chipped away every time you settle for less.

And the worst part?

You start telling yourself it's "good enough."

So you don't have to admit it's not real.

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Most people don't see this: the longer you accept low effort, the more you show people what you will accept.

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