A flake isn’t bad luck. It’s a scoreboard.
Every time someone ghosts a plan they’re testing how loosely you guard your calendar.
Most people fail by negotiating: “No worries, let me know when you’re free.”
Translation: “My time is optional. Yours isn’t.”
Respect isn’t requested-it’s enforced.
You need a rule-set that punishes vagueness and rewards commitment on autopilot.
So forget feelings. Run numbers.
Three strikes, four follow-ups, zero confusion.
This is where most fail - and where the few who get it separate themselves:
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