You think they lost interest because they found someone else.

No.

They lost interest because they figured you out.

Not the surface you.

The pattern underneath you.

The rhythm you fall into the moment you feel potential.

Every dynamic has a pattern.
Every person has a signature loop.
And yours becomes obvious faster than you realize.

Here’s the quiet truth nobody likes to admit:

Most people don’t get rejected for who they are.
They get rejected for how predictable their responses become once emotions get involved.

You start at ease.
You start detached.
You start with power.

And then the shift hits.

Your messages get faster.
Your tone gets softer.
Your presence gets dependent on their replies.

You call it “trying.”
They read it as “losing frame.”

Most people stop here. Here’s what to do instead: