You don’t lose people because you’re not attractive.
You lose them because you leak power in ways you don’t even notice.

And once power leaks, interest follows.
Always.

Here’s the part no one wants to admit:
Most power leaks happen in micro-moments.
Tiny tells.
Subtle tone shifts.
Little bids for reassurance disguised as “being nice.”

You think you’re building connection.
But the other person reads one thing:
pressure.

Connection grows from clarity.
Pressure grows from uncertainty.
And uncertainty is always created by the person who’s afraid to pause, afraid to wait, afraid to let the dynamic breathe.

Let me give you the real problem:
Most people think “confidence” is the solution.
It’s not.
Confidence is a symptom.

The actual foundation is something far more uncomfortable:
emotional pacing.

Fast pacing says you’re trying to secure the outcome.
Balanced pacing says you trust the outcome.
And people respond to the energy that signals, “I could stay or I could walk. I’m good either way.”

Most never master this.
They over-talk, over-offer, over-respond, over-explain…
because they’re trying to avoid the uncertainty that actually builds attraction.

Here’s how it really works:
The more you try to prevent loss, the more you create it.

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