Most people don’t get ghosted.
They get stalled.

Everything feels fine, but it’s going nowhere.
No clarity. No forward movement. Just loops.

Here’s your filter:
By Day 21 (3 weeks from first meet or first date), these 3 things must be happening.

1. Time Investment
You’ve seen each other more than once.
Not just texting. Not just vibes. Time in person.

2. Communication Upgrade
You’re not guessing. There’s some rhythm.
They initiate. They follow through. The tone is open, not evasive.

3. Signals of Continuity
They mention future plans. Ask what you’re into.
Anything that shows forward motion - not just moment-to-moment flings.

If these don’t show up by Day 21, it’s not momentum. It’s a situationship funnel.

If you’re tired of riding vibes with no destination:
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Use it to rebuild your pace, presence, and pattern clarity in one weekend.

Most people fear having standards because they think it’ll scare people off.
That’s the point. It keeps the wrong ones out.

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