You already know the text.
“wyd”
“u up?”
“hey”
Always after 9pm. Never with a plan.

This isn’t interest.
It’s access.
They’re not choosing you. They’re checking if you’re still available.

Here’s how to read it:

1. Convenience Ping
Low effort. No context. Sent to 3 other people too.
They want attention, not you.

2. Half-Bait
“I was thinking about you”
“Wish you were here”
Sounds sweeter. But still no plan. Still about them.

Neutral Response to Either:
“Hope your night’s good. I’m off to bed - early start.”
That’s a boundary in disguise. No drama, no chase.

If you’re not being treated like a plan, stop acting like a backup.

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