The chat was fireworks last weekend.
Now each reply arrives slower, shorter, colder.
You feel the vacuum forming but every extra text only widens it.
Wait too long and the thread’s a corpse you’re forced to admire.
People think revival means more charm or bigger stakes.
Wrong diagnosis.
Momentum dies because energy loses shape, not shine.
Revival demands architecture.
The Life-Support Engine runs on three moving parts:
Anchor - plants a shared reference point they can’t ignore.
Constraint - limits the field so decision becomes simple, not stressful.
Trigger - jolts action at the exact moment friction is lowest.
Miss any one and you’re pumping air into a punctured lung.
This next part decides whether you revive or write another eulogy:
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