You don’t lose momentum because you text wrong.
You lose momentum because you pace wrong.

Every crash you’ve ever had comes back to this:
you either over-accelerated or under-matched at the exact moment alignment needed precision.

Here’s the part almost no one teaches:
pacing isn’t about mirroring.
Mirroring is passive.
Pacing is active alignment - the art of staying in the same energetic lane without slipping into pursuit or withdrawal.

The Micro-Match Rule is the only rule that keeps you there.

Most people ignore it because it feels too simple.
But it’s the simplicity that makes it lethal.

Here’s how it really works:

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