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There’s one signal almost everyone ignores.
And it’s the reason you end up chasing by Day 3.

It’s not their response time.
It’s not their tone.
It’s not whether they’re “into you.”

It’s the shift in initiative.

Day 1: they’re engaged.
Day 2: you match their energy.
Day 3: you start leading… because they stopped.

And you don’t notice the moment it flipped.

This is where the anxiety begins.
Not when they slow down -
but when you compensate for it.

The second you take over responsibility for the pacing, the dynamic changes.
You move from connection… to management.
From presence… to performance.
From matching… to maintaining.

And once you slip into manager mode, attraction collapses fast.

That’s why I built The 90-Day Filter Playbook (25% off)
- to help you catch these early shifts before they drag you into pursuit loops you never meant to start.

Most people avoid this truth:

You don’t chase because you’re desperate.
You chase because you missed the moment that told you to stop matching and start observing.

The early cue is always the same:

Their initiative drops… and your instinct is to raise yours.

Tomorrow, you’ll see the exact pattern that prevents this -
and the move that stops the Day 3 chase before it ever begins.

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