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Most people panic the second someone goes warm… then cold.
They assume it’s mixed signals.
They assume interest dropped.
They assume something went wrong.
But here’s the truth nobody teaches:
Warm then cold isn’t always a pullback. Sometimes it’s a reset.
A calibration.
A breather.
A moment where their nervous system checks the dynamic before moving forward again.
Humans do this naturally.
They open… then assess.
They lean in… then stabilize.
They get curious… then pause to feel what it means.
It’s not rejection.
It’s regulation.
And if you misread that pause as disinterest?
You overreact.
You tighten up.
You compensate.
You try to “fix” what isn’t broken.
That reaction is what actually breaks the momentum.
That’s why I built The 90-Day Filter Playbook (25% off) to help you stop rewarding chaos and start filtering with precision.
Most people never catch this:
If you stay steady during their calibration, the warmth returns stronger.
If you wobble, their pause becomes distance.
The rule is simple:
Warm then cold only becomes a problem when you treat it like one.
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