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You reread the old texts - the ones that felt so easy.
The late-night calls, the check-ins, the spark.
Back when they didn’t know if you liked them yet.
Call it the Chase-Then-Chill Rule.
Some people aren’t looking for connection.
They’re chasing confirmation.
Once they get it, they disappear - or get weird.
Not because you did anything wrong.
But because attention was the real goal. Not you.
At first, it’s electric. They show up fast and often.
You laugh more. You sleep better.
You finally feel chosen.
So when the shift happens - you doubt yourself, not them.
You tell yourself they’re just busy. Or scared.
But deep down, you know what changed.
You got warm. They got cold.
This is a pattern, not a mystery.
It’s not about texting games or “losing interest.”
It’s about emotional maturity.
Genuine people don’t flinch when love starts to feel real.
They stay soft. They lean in.
They don’t punish you for caring back.
If that switch in them felt sudden,
you’re not crazy - you’re catching the signal clearly.
You can apply that same lens with The App-to-Date Converter.
We teach how to spot signals that stick - not just spark.
Check in with yourself:
– Are you trying to get back to how it was?
– Do you feel safe… or on trial?
– Are you being met… or managed?
Script: “It felt good until I liked you back. That doesn’t feel good anymore.”
By Day 10 - if their warmth only lives in the beginning, leave it there.
Close the chat. Breathe.
Let their silence do the explaining.
Proof over promises.
NoMixedSignals.