Saturday freedom creates decision fog. Use one clear plan to measure energy in 120 minutes and stop guessing.
Framework
Step 1 - 2 slot offer on 10/18
Present exactly 2 start times for Saturday 10/18: 17:30 or 19:30 at one venue you preselect
If they cannot pick one by T minus 6 hours, pause outreach for 7 days or exit
Step 2 - 90 minute focus rule
Cap the meet at 75 to 90 minutes and hold the end time even if the vibe is strong
If they push for “play it by ear,” maintain the cap and decline add ons after minute 90
Step 3 - 4 of 6 signals by the door
Before leaving, confirm at least 4 of 6: on time within 5 minutes, asks 2 questions back, low phone use under 3 glances, future breadcrumb once, reciprocal plan help once, steady eye contact twice
If you hit 3 or fewer by 21:30, no second invite for 10 to 14 days
Standards on paper: 3 non-negotiables, 5 dealbreakers, 2 green flags
Cadence: Replies in 2 - 6 hours, follow-up in 24 hours, dates spaced 3 - 5 days
Quick Wins
Block 2 windows now: 17:30 to 19:00 and 19:30 to 21:00 in 4 minutes
Ask 3 questions about energy for Saturdays, next 7 days schedule, and sleep pattern
End the date at minute 85 to protect momentum and prevent drift
Confirm yes or no within 6 hours post date using a single message
Script: “Free Sat 10/18 pick 5:30 or 7:30 at [spot] 90 minute cap and I’ll book by 3 pm”
If - Then Fallbacks
If confirmation takes more than 6 hours twice, then pause for 14 days
If scheduling slips 2 times, then stop and remove Saturday priority
If boundary is crossed once, then immediate exit
If 2 green signals and 0 dealbreakers, then continue for 14 days
If scheduling chaos exceeds 12 messages, then switch or exit
Closer
One night can reveal a month of patterns. Use 2 fixed slots and a 90 minute cap to test match speed without overinvesting.
One Metric: By 10/19 10:00 - reply received and 4 of 6 checks met. Else exit.
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