The holidays don’t decide the fate of a connection.
The week after does.

Because post-holiday energy isn’t neutral.
It’s revealing.
Everyone comes back with a different emotional rhythm — grounded, overwhelmed, detached, excited, avoidant, recalibrated, or completely reset.

And that shift exposes the truth you couldn’t see during the chaos.

Some people slide right back into the thread.
Some need a warm-up.
Some act like the connection never existed.
Some hover but don’t engage.
Some come back stronger because the distance clarified things for them.

But here’s the part that hits hardest:
post-holiday behavior is rarely about you.
It’s about how they regulate emotional momentum when life disrupts the rhythm.

This is where most connections die — not because they were weak, but because no one knows how to navigate the recalibration.

That’s why I built The 90-Day Filter Playbook (25% off) to help you stop rewarding chaos and start filtering with precision

Most people miss this truth:
the week after holidays exposes their real baseline.
Not the excitement.
Not the spark.
The baseline.
And the baseline is what determines whether a connection can actually grow.

Tomorrow I’ll show you the exact reset framework —
the move that keeps post-holiday wobble from turning into a slow fade.

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