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There’s a reason people pull back the second you “finally chill.”

It’s not because you relaxed.
It’s because your energy collapsed.

Most people don’t understand this distinction.

Relaxed energy is grounded.
Collapsed energy is detached.
And the shift between those two is tiny… but they feel it instantly.

Here’s the truth:

The moment your presence drops, their uncertainty rises.

You think you’re being easygoing.
They feel the connection loosen.
You think you’re playing it cool.
They feel the dynamic flatten.
You think you’re avoiding pressure.
They feel the polarity dissolve.

That’s why I built The 90-Day Filter Playbook (25% off) to help you stop rewarding chaos and start filtering with precision.

Most people never realize this:
You don’t lose them because you stopped trying.
You lose them because you stopped leading.

Presence is what creates gravity.
When your presence drops too far, there’s nothing for them to move toward.

Here’s the real rule:
Relaxation works when your signal stays anchored.
It backfires when you relax so hard the energy disappears.

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