Most people think they lose someone because interest fades over time.

Wrong.

You lose them in one moment:
the moment your energy switches from present to attached.

It’s subtle.
It’s fast.
And it’s predictable.

You feel potential.
You feel connection.
You feel good energy finally landing.

And instead of holding your center, you start adjusting your behavior to “protect” it.

This is where the dynamic flips.

Your messages get warmer.
Your timing adapts.
Your presence gets softer.
Your attention becomes wrapped around their responses.

They don’t pull back because you’re too invested.
They pull back because your signal changed.

You went from grounded and selective to nervous about losing momentum.

Most people stop here. Here’s what to do instead: